Tuesday, January 1, 2019

Stepping UP


Dear Women Everywhere,

New Year NEW ME, I’m stepping it up.  I started out slow and steady.  I think that is the best way to go.  I warmed up Mr. Sparks.  I have showed him more affection with a little more PDA, a few more compliments and verbal love everyday over the last few weeks.  Now in the new year I am trying to decide how to step it up. 

I think men need to feel loved and appreciated just as much as women do.  While it is true that I need more of that in my life I think Mr. Sparks does as well.  So, I am going to write him a love note.  A part of me wants to tell him that I want our sex life to improve, but I think I am going to save that for another time.  In this note I am just going to tell him how much I love and appreciate him and how I couldn’t imagine my life without him.  

As for more PDA I was wondering where to draw the line.  I like to show my affection but in public I never like to have too much attention drawn to us.  I found this article:  Etiquette of Public Affection to be helpful.  Are you and your partner big on the PDA or more reserved?  

While it is true, just between us, there are times he drives me crazy when I trip over his shoes he left out or his snoring keeps me up all night.  But at the end of the day there is no one else I would rather do life with.  There are so many things we vent about with our spouses rolling our eyes and arguing over that sometimes we forget to tell them what we love about them.  I think we also forget to remind ourselves.  This note is not just for him, it is for me too.  It is to remind me why I love him, why I married him, and why I am going to keep fighting to get this marriage back to where I want/need it to be.  Let me know how yours goes.



All the best,

Mrs. Sparks

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