Dear Women Everywhere,
Yes, that is right. I
have decided to schedule my sex life. It
sounds worse than it is. This is how I
am beginning to overcome my mental block.
I am mentally deciding to have sex three times a week! Ok maybe at least twice a week with a goal to get up to three times. I am not actually writing it down or anything,
although you could. I am just making a
mental note. Then on those days I know
to physically prepare and send a flirty text to get Mr. Sparks revved up throughout
the day too. Hopefully, once we get into
a groove it will come more naturally but I think this will be a good place to
start. Do you schedule sex?
I found this article: How Scheduling Your Sex Life Can Save Your Marriage. So I am not the only one who thinks it is valuable. I want to eventually talk to Mr. Sparks and ask if he wants to plan this together as well. However, for now it is something I am going to keep secret. I feel more comfortable and a little more sexy having it as my dirty little secret.
Updating you on actually feeling pretty lately. Well, I have accomplished this so far. Although, I don’t consider this a big feat
given it has only been a few days but at least it is the start of a routine. I have shaved my legs and Mr. Sparks has noticed. The focus of sex has definitely shifted in
our home over the last month. My spiked
interest has increased his as well. I
was able to take control last night and take it a little slower. He seemed to like it. I think tonight I am going to pour us some
wine and have a good old-fashioned sex talk with Mr. Sparks. Which leads me to this…How often do you and
your spouse talk about sex? Do you
address your likes and dislikes? I have
to admit it has been YEARS and YEARS since we have had a good sex talk. In fact, the last time we discussed it was
deciding that he would get snipped.
Which is definitely not sexy talk.
I’ll let you know how it goes.
All the best,
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