Life. Just when things start moving smoothly you get covered in tomato soup vomit and get into an argument over who is going to stay home with a sick kid. The smell of vomit is still in my hair and for the record it was me. I stayed home. Nope, not feeling it. Not in the mood tonight.
It 's hard, it made sense for me to stay home today, and if I'm being honest I'm not mad about that. Our daughter couldn't help vomiting on me. Well, maybe she could. She is old enough to make it to the toilet...we will work on that one. Just overall, everything, makes me feel blah, not ready to go get busy. I can't imagine Mr. Sparks feels ready to go either after we got all of 5 hours of sleep. Do you ever have nights like this? It felt like everything that could go wrong did today.
I need to not be discouraged. I read this article and thought it was better than most: When Couples Stop Coupling . It gave me hope that I am on the right path...that we are on the right path. The article points out that it is important to make being intimate a priority in your marriage. Reminding me how it brings us closer as a couple and reconnects us. It is normal for me to feel annoyed with Mr. Sparks at times, it would be abnormal if it was always rainbows and sunshine. That is not how the real world works. Life isn't perfect. When you live with someone and you are around them ALL the time unless you are being fake you are going to have differences in opinions. I know this will pass and we will be back on track soon.
I am not a counselor or therapist. I am just a married woman trying to achieve what I want in life. Reading articles helps sometimes. However, at times it gets frustrating. Many professionals seem to forget that shit happens in life. This article had some good information: Keep The Spark Alive in Your Marriage Although it was written by a man, hopefully he looked for input from a woman.
If anyone has some good news for me please, I would love to hear it. I could really use a pick me up! Please tell me if someone else has done something creative to spark up their sex life.
All the best,
Mrs. Sparks
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