Dear Women Everywhere,
Mentally I am trying to make an effort. I have found that it all starts in my mind
and not with my body. I know that sounds
odd, especially to Mr. Sparks. He tried
to get frisky last night and once again I shot him down. I didn’t want to, but I just wasn’t in the
mood. I know, it sounds cliché. But it probably sounds that way because women
everywhere feel this way. He asked if he
could get me in the mood and I just gave him a dirty look. I feel like I just took ten steps backwards.
So, how can I be mentally in the mood? I need to feel good about myself. I think I am going to start making more of an
effort again. Not that I have time to do
my hair and pick out nicer clothes in the morning, but I think it’s time that I
MAKE the time again. The kids are a
little older and a little more independent and it is time that I stop relying
solely on a pony tail in life. I think I
may even start shaving my legs more often, that will make me feel sexier and in
the mood. I know everyone thinks all
this is just for men, but I do think that it used to make ME feel mentally sexy
and confident. I’ll let you know, that
is if I can find the time to make it happen.
Who’s with me? Let’s try and find
a few extra me time minutes each day to look and feel like we used to.
I started looking online and found a few articles like this one: Getting in the Mood When You Feel Too Stressed For Sex. This type of information is good, but not good enough...for me at least. I am sure it helps many women. That is so sweet that I will be in the mood if I "reduce obligations" in my life. But guess what ladies...that is not how the real world works. While some of the articles tips are great, some are just not realistic for REAL women. We can't all afford house cleaners, nannies, personal trainers, and nutritionist. We are just trying to get by. That is why my sex life is so important to bring back into my life. It doesn't cost money, it makes me feel amazing, it relieves my stress, and brings back that connection to my husband that is so important to me and my marriage. Have you found any more useful articles that are more realistic?
I started looking online and found a few articles like this one: Getting in the Mood When You Feel Too Stressed For Sex. This type of information is good, but not good enough...for me at least. I am sure it helps many women. That is so sweet that I will be in the mood if I "reduce obligations" in my life. But guess what ladies...that is not how the real world works. While some of the articles tips are great, some are just not realistic for REAL women. We can't all afford house cleaners, nannies, personal trainers, and nutritionist. We are just trying to get by. That is why my sex life is so important to bring back into my life. It doesn't cost money, it makes me feel amazing, it relieves my stress, and brings back that connection to my husband that is so important to me and my marriage. Have you found any more useful articles that are more realistic?
On a different note I did start my research, although I have
not put it into action. How to make a
man last longer in the sack. Here is a link to one article I found: 5 Ways to Help Him Last Longer in Bed. There are a
few tricks I have discovered, and I plan to use once I break through my mental
issues. The two I am going to focus on
are going slower and changing positions.
I think I am going to try and take a little more control. I will see if Mr. Sparks likes it. Did you find anything useful in your research?
All the best,
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