Dinner went was alright, I only slightly over cooked the salmon. Cooking never has been my strong suit. Mr. Sparks has always done more of the cooking than I have. He leaves in the in morning for Japan. It is a short trip given how far he is going but it always gives me more respect for single parents out there. I have respect for the fact that they have to do it all on their own every day. They are amazing and, I know this is completely off subject but it made me wonder how children can benefit from single parents. So, as you all know by now how much I love reading articles. I found this great article 7 Wonderful Ways Kids Benefit From Having Single Moms.
Okay, obviously my dry spell is continuing. Aunt flow is still here and Mr. Sparks is heading out before she leaves. I am doing my best to still be loving and affectionate. In fact, I have talked to Mr. Sparks more about what I like. I told him I love it when he is a little more of a gentleman. Don't get me wrong, I am all for strong independent women and I am raising two of them as we speak. However, that doesn't mean I don't want to be treated more like a lady. I can be both a strong independent woman and a wife that likes to be treated with love and kindness.
I explained to Mr. Sparks that I find it sexy when he does things for me like holds doors, or thinks of me first. It makes me happy and tells me in nonverbal ways that he is thinking of me. I want him to share what turns him on with me as well. I know mine may not be as sexy as he would have wanted but, I was just being honest. I get turned on, or off, throughout the day by his little actions or nonactions. This is not to say I want him to be perfect, just to think a little more now and then of his actions for me.
For now, my dry spell is continuing. I hope you are doing better than I am. Hopefully the night Mr. Sparks gets back from his trip there are fire works. Until then...
All the best,
Mrs. Sparks
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