Dear Women Everywhere,
I read an article awhile ago about what people regret most in life. It was surprising to learn it wasn’t
something they said or did, it was what they didn’t do. I don’t want to have regrets in my
marriage. I want to grow old together
and I want to look back and think, Yes!
We did it right. I don’t want to
miss a moment to tell Mr. Sparks I love him.
I don’t want to miss a moment to hold his hand or kiss him goodnight and
I surly don’t want to miss the chance to have the best sex life possible.
Like everything in life, practice makes perfect. I remember we used to be good at this, so we
just HAVE to get our groove back. A large
part of that is me getting my groove back.
I admit that having kids did a number on my body and I need to be
comfortable and confident in my skin again so that I can have more fun in the
bedroom again. I know many women feel
the same way. I wouldn’t change any of
it because I love my little girls with all my heart. Even when I'm doing laundry and picking up the same damn toy for the hundredth time. That doesn’t mean I don’t
want to feel sexy again too. I want to be able to set that part of me aside at night and be fun and let loose.
The sexting (well, the very vanilla sexting) went over very
well. He was flirty right back. I can see where it is easy to take it further
over the phone because it’s as if you are behind a mask. This morning he left for work before I did so
I took a picture of two pairs of sexy underwear (the only two I have, I made a
mental note to go shopping) and asked him to pick. After some hesitation he did. Then I told him he will have to investigate
later and see if I went with his wishes.
I thought this was fun and flirty.
Anyone else willing to take this risk? I found an article you may be interested in as well. How to use sexting to improve your marriage.
In the mean time I am going to start doing some research as
to how to make a man last longer in bed.
Does anyone have any tips?
All the best,
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