Lingerie ON

Dear Women Everywhere,

Finally, after it sitting in the drawer mocking me the lingerie, I was so eager to use, was put to good use.  Mr. Sparks waited down stairs patiently as I got ready.  My heart was racing a little as I felt so exposed but excited at the same time.  The moment I knew it was all worth it was when I saw the twinkle in his eyes and the mischievous youthful smile on his face.  In that moment all my insecurities drifted away, and I felt like we were just two young love birds again.  With our door locked for just a little while time stood still, and all our worries drifted away as if nothing else mattered in the world except our love. 

Sadly, and I hate to admit this, it has probably been since we were newly weds that I did anything special like that for Mr.  Sparks.  I think too often I let my insecurities get in the way of what really matters in life.  I get too wrapped up in my own head to realize that Mr. Sparks loves me for who I am.  Tonight, that twinkle in his eye and youthful smile reminded me that he finds me attractive still and I should be proud of the body that I have.  It is beautiful and wonderful that I have given birth to our two beautiful little girls.  In turn, I love his body as it has aged as well.  I don’t want the boy he once was (although I loved it at the time).  I now love the man he has become, extra hair and all. 

I am going to order more sexy underwear.  I enjoyed it and so did Mr. Sparks.  However, I know how life can get.  So, I think we should declare a designated night that is a little sexier than the other nights.  I’m thinking Monday’s because we are always dreading them, and it would make me look forward to Monday.  I will have to talk to Mr. Sparks and see what he thinks.  Do any of you have a designated night that you dress sexy? 

On a side note Mr. Sparks asked if I wanted him to wear anything special.  Do any of you have your man dress sexy?  I hadn’t really thought of this.  I told him I would have to think about it.  I know everyone is different and there is no judgement here.  If you want your man (or partner) wearing leather chaps more power to you.  For me, it is going to be a fantasy I explore further down the road.  I did find this article on what others think is sext for men to wear:  The 23 Sexiest Things a Guy Can Wear However, these are more in a day to day setting and not so much in the bedroom.  

All the best,

Mrs. Sparks

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