Self Satisfaction

Dear Women Everywhere

I'm all alone.  It's crazy how quiet the house seems at night with one less body in it.  I know it seems silly.  I am really not alone at all, the kids are home and the ferocious beast of a dog that still wakes me up every night or will defecate on the carpet.  Yet even when Mr. Sparks goes to bed before me I can sense his presence and don't feel as alone as I do right now.  He has traveled abroad for work so now I sit in a quiet house while everyone sleeps.

I decided tonight that instead of taking break from my sexual journey that I would continue it.  It has been sometime since I discovered my own self satisfaction.  To make it extra fun I decided to text Mr. Sparks and let him know what I was up to as well.  He definitely appreciated the information.  Solving your own problems is sometimes VERY satisfying, if you don't know your own wants and needs, then who does?  Not to mention all the fun toys they have these days to aid in accomplishing your goals.  You don't even have to be brave anymore when shopping, you can simply go online and click on when you want.

Not that there was any doubt that orgasms, no matter how they are achieved, have health benefits I did find some articles to support this.  Health Benefits of Masturbation.  8 Health Benefits Of Having An Orgasm Every Woman Should Know.  Not to mention it is just fun, why can't we just have fun in life again.  It almost feels like that is frowned upon these days.  As if we need an excuse to do something we want to do in life.  Look, I am a responsible adult who is a productive member of society...I don't need to have an excuse...and you don't either!

So, what do you like to think about while you self satisfy?  Next time you do it yourself.  I challenge you to not fantasize but just focus on YOU.  Just think about how relaxed you are and think about how great it feels.  Don't think about anything else, let your mind go blank.  Focus only on the feeling and that nothing else in the world matters at that moment.  If we can find our relaxation mode in our alone moments it will be easier to find them in other moments as well.  I am more ready than ever for Mr. Sparks to return home.

All the best,

Mrs. Sparks

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