Wednesday, December 19, 2018

When The Flame Fizzles


Dear Women Everywhere, 
Sex is never something I thought I would be on my knees praying for.  Yet there I was, in church last Sunday praying for a better sex life with my husband.  I can’t pin down exactly when the spark fizzled out.  Maybe it was after the first kiddo was born, maybe it was after the second.  Maybe it was the stress of two working parents, the mortgage, the laundry, cooking dinner, homework, and life in general.  However, it happened after 13 years of marriage, we were still in love and happy, but there was a distance that is hard to describe. 

There I was on my knees in church wondering.  Is sex that important to me?  Is sex that important to my marriage?  Sneaking a sideways glance at my loving husband, who is an amazing father, I wondered how a better sex life would change his life too.  At that point I decided I was going to find out.  As a strong and powerful woman do, I decided to take control of the situation. 

You are probably wondering why I would even fathom putting this very real and embarrassing situation online.  That is exactly why.  Because it is very real, and it shouldn’t be embarrassing.  I have realized I am not alone.  There are so many women out there that have a lack of sex in their marriage and wish for more.  So, here is my story on how I am going to change my marriage.  If I can help one other person…mission accomplished. 


All the best,

Mrs. Sparks

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